Ubuntu
April 2, 2010 | Meagan Kinsella, Intern, South Africa, Love LifeMy time in South Africa is coming to an end. As such I have learned a great deal from these people under the sunny (well now more rainy) African skies. One of the most important lessons I am come to know is that of ubuntu. Ubuntu is a concept that is at the heart of the southern African people and the creation of the modern Republic of South Africa. Ubuntu originates from the Bantu languages. It essentially means I am because you are. Human beings can not exist in isolation of another and must come together. Humans are interconnected.
While some people I have spoken with believe ubuntu just merely exists on the surface level, many more have come to tell me and show me how this concept is still practiced today. One of the most noticeable examples I have come to experience occurred last Sunday when I was to attend an engagement party of a coworker, Jojo, in the nearby former black township of Soshanguve. Soshanguve is approximately twenty three kilometres from downtown Pretoria. On the Sunday morning I took a taxi from where I am living in Garsfontein to the city centre to meet my friend and fellow AFS intern Patty who hails from Holland. Together Patty and I found a taxi that would take us to Soshanguve. As I had never been to Soshanguve I did not truly understand how massive and complicated the township was despite warnings from colleagues. Luckily the taxi driver took pity on Patty and I and actually drove into Ext 3 in Soshanguve when he was merely just supposed to drive by the township. Soshanguve is unlike where I work in Mamelodi and is much more diffucult to navigate for an outsider. While I had the address of where Patty and I needed to go this was not enough to truly know where we were actually going. As such, the taxi driver asked me to call Jojo to find out where we were supposed to go and to meet us at a certain location. Once on the phone the taxi driver made arrangements with Jojo for all of us to meet at a nearby primary school where Patty and I would go from the minibus taxi immediately into Jojo’s car. The taxi driver explained Soshanguve was not an area you wanted to walk around aimlessly especially as two young female Caucasian foreigners due to some of the young men living in the area. Once the taxi pulled up beside Jojo’s car I gave the driver an extra R10 for going out of the way for us something he did not have to do but did because of ubuntu. I am so thankful we had this man looking out for us as Soshanguve is too big and strange to me as I am used to places like Soweto and Mamelodi.
Once Patty and I met up with Jojo we were taken to a large shack that had become a church building for a 3 hr service that included a normal church service, a service dedicated to Jojo and his fiance Naomi (much like a wedding where engagement rings are exchanged and parents give their blessings) and a healing service. Patty and I just about died from the lack of air circulation and heat as over 100 people were crammed in the shack for the service. After this we were taken to a nearby tent that was lavishly decorated in pink and white where lunch would be served. There was a wonderful buffet lunch with an engagement cake in the shape of a bible (both Naomi and Jojo are very active in their church). Eventually some people from work also came by the party and we were all able to enjoy the live music provided by a group of violinists and cellists which came as a surprise to me as this engagement party was the most fancy engagement party I had ever been to. Nonetheless I had a great time and found a much easier way back home as Modiegi drove Thabo, Patty and I back to town.
Another example of ubuntu that easily comes across in my mind happened about two weeks ago when I working in Mamelodi. As I was the only one in the office for the day with no water due to the water being shut off for construction, I had to go to the nearby garage for bottled water like I have done many times over the course of my internship. On my way back to the office located inside SOS Children’s Village Mamelodi, I greeted an elderly woman in Sotho as she was passing by me. The woman was greeted me back in Sotho and told me in Eglish that she was so surprised to see me walking about so freely and comfortably in the township which made her very happy. She said this was a sign of ubuntu as this was an example of how unity was occurring in South Africa after the Apartheid. As I have come to find out for myself it is very seldom for a Caucasian person to be in Mamelodi much less walking around at ease like myself.
No matter where you look a person can find instances of ubuntu. My current and third host family I have had in South Africa (I had to move from my second host family as my former host mother had many personal issues she needed to sort out) took me in due to this concept. My current host mom Lebo is a devout Christian and due to ubuntu and her Christian beliefs she took me in on short notice and welcomed me into her family despite having a horrible hosting experience last year with an Alaskan high school student that was sent home by AFS after 1 month into her 1 year stay in South Africa. Luckily it was worked out for the three of us living at the Mojaki residence as we are planning a trip to Cape Town for the Easter Weekend.
As witnessing ubuntu in its various forms, I hope I will be able to bring this notion with me upon my return to Canada in just a week’s time. In Canada, I have found it very common for the individual to take precedence over all else whereby others are ignored or cast aside in the process. We must come to realize we are not alone. We are all part of something much bigger and must work together to coexist.
Cheers,
Meagan